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7 Things That Reveal Someone Is in Love With You

We can see that Hyojoo and Jongsuk shows the below signs whenever they are together. This post is just compilation of signs wherein you’ll see a person is in love with you.

(credits to the Brightside for the original article)


7. Hormonal changes

It’s already known that a group of certain hormones is responsible for strong feelings. The release of these hormones makes people experience romantic feelings and passion that they can’t control very well. But men’s signs of falling in love are different from women’s.

At first, their emotional and sexual preferences match: men become more romantic, tender, and attentive because of oxytocin, while women experience a burst of energy and a high sex drive because of testosterone. But unfortunately, when the level of hormones returns to its normal state, women feel a lack of attention and men miss the number of intimate moments.

 

6. Voice changes

The changes in our bodies don’t stop when the period of passionate love ends. For example, our voice still changes. According to one study, when a woman speaks to her beloved, her voice unconsciously gets softer and higher. On the other hand, other research revealed that women can manipulate their voice pitch making it lower with more vibrations to be more attractive.

But the thing is, men unconsciously prefer women whose voice pitch is high and “womanly”. It’s all about our instincts: such a voice indicates that a woman is caring and reliable, and is ready for a long-term relationship. A lower voice attracts men only physically as it’s mostly about sexual interest.

 

5. Uncontrollable blushing

A guy or girl of your dreams comes into your life, smiles at you, and passes by. It may not seem like something special but your cheeks are already red and you can’t do anything about it.

Modern psychologists found out that blushing is actually useful and can make you more likable. According to one theory, it’s a natural reaction to the fear of being “found out”. Psychologist Ray Crozier has interviewed many people about situations that cause them to turn red, and he found that it most typically involves the potential exposure of something private, not connected to embarrassing situations. The blushing may be a physiological reaction to the shock that your secret could become public. But how can this cause an attraction to another person? It’s easy: in such cases, your reddened face shows that you want to avoid excessive attention, giving the impression of a shy and less narcissistic person. And if we consider the fact that blushing is uncontrollable, we may say that it’s one of the most reliable features of honesty.

 

4. Men’s bones get stronger.

Studies at the University of California in Los Angeles show that married men and men in long-term relationships (especially those who are older than 25) have stronger and healthier bones. But here’s one important takeaway: a relationship or marriage is happier when a woman is caring and supportive. During this trial, it was found that if a woman wasn’t tender and loving, there was no high bone strength revealed.

 

3. Dilated pupils

Eyes play a really important role at the beginning of a relationship, and the eyes’ changes and movements are the most reliable signals when it comes to understanding our mood while spending time with our beloved.

Scientists have already proven that pupil dilation depends not only on light but on our emotional state as well. That’s why loving people look into each others’ eyes: they’re unconsciously trying to see if this can be seen in the person they’re in love with.

 

2. A painful state

Confusion, nervousness, mood swings, loss of appetite, and fatigue are also on the list of symptoms that are caused by falling in love. Our bodies let us know that we’re plunging into really strong feelings.

Cortisol, a stress hormone, can be one of the reasons for our suffering because when a person is falling in love, they experience lots of emotions and great stress. For example, blood vessels in our stomach constrict and we feel nausea. As a rule, all unpleasant symptoms go away when our relationship becomes more stable and there’s no more uncertainty. But sometimes these feelings can come back like during a wedding or if something goes wrong in a relationship.

 

1. Superpowers

The things is, love and fear literally give us superpowers. And it happens to more than just parents, it’s also present in people in love. This is due to the oxytocin that is released into our systems when we fall in love and it can actually increase our tolerance for physical pain. That’s why people experiencing this strong and beautiful feeling think that they’re able to do anything for their beloved.


Disclaimer: The article above is not originally mine. I just placed JongJoo couple photos which depicts those given signs. Credits to the Brightside.

 


ADDITIONAL POST:

Have faith in JongJoo guys! Don’t lose hope until there are no official announcement yet…

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Hi JJ chingus.. What's up? Are you alright? Are you okay? Are you sad? Are you down, confused, frustased and brokenheart? Please don't. Say you are okay, say you are alright. Say you still here with me and other JJ chingus. Happiness and sadness is the part of our live. Also for something like this moment. As JJS it's natural to have those feelings too. Actually something like this is the consequences to be a shipper. In the end we must facing two realities : sad ending or happy ending. But do you think this is a sad ending for us? Is it a time to give up and move on? If you asking me, I'll say NOT YET. This not a sad ending, yet, for me. And I'm not giving up, yet. But it doesn't mean I am in DENIAL. No. As we know it's not confirmed yet, right? Did we still have a hope? You can if you want to. But I want us to be more rational to face this reality, what happen right now, and what will happen in the future. As a good shipper we must accept what just happen and what will happen, with open mind. Stay positive, it's the point that I want to underline here. Being positive it's mean we can face everything from the bright and clear side. Even if someday it will turn to be a real sad ending, we already well prepare and accept it with a light heart, with a big smile. Lie if we not hurt and sad, but face it. Reality not always work as we wish and hope. And if someone say a bad words to us, let them. Answer with a nice and wise words. Don't be rude. What we say reflect who we are. So yeah, keep positive chingus. It's not the end, yet. Not the end of the world too, lol. Do we have a real life which is more important than this? If from the first you decide to ship just for fun, keep it until the end. We never can predict a future. So enjoy this moment. Life for today and put your worries on tomorrow ( but I suggest you to not worry 😊 ). As I always said if JJ is mean to be, they will be. If not, yeah it's mean they're not mean to be. If their happiness is with someone else, what we can do other than pray for their happiness. Because their happiness is the main matter for us, as a shippers, and as their fans 😙 – – to be continue — ❤ #jongjoo #jongjoocouple #honeycouple

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… and if someday the thing that we did not want to happen comes (*knock knock*), let’s respect their decision and let’s still continue on supporting Han Hyo Joo and Lee Jong Suk. 😊

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A Kdrama fangirl, Han Hyo Joo fan, and Honey/JongJoo shipper.

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